Comments on: Ghosts from the past http://fairytalesend.com/2009/01/ghosts-from-the-past/ A princess's journey into life after ever after isn't happy Thu, 21 Jan 2010 12:35:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: Nicole http://fairytalesend.com/2009/01/ghosts-from-the-past/comment-page-1/#comment-31 Nicole Wed, 29 Apr 2009 15:09:45 +0000 http://fairytalesend.wordpress.com/?p=31#comment-31 That's so crazy! I can't believe they ended up living together! The guy I'm with now was, I guess what you would call, My Greek, back in college. I never thought it would get to the point where we were in a relationship. I remember one time we were laying there and he mentioned something about him not looking for a relationship -- just fun. It caught me off guard so much that I caught myself telling him I had no idea what he was talking about -- I wasn't looking for a relationship, before I could even finish thinking it to myself. 4 1/2 years later and we're together now. I don't know how it happened but if I ever heard him say something like that I'd have to kick his ass. Simple as that. lol And I'd get an extra kick in there just for you ;) That’s so crazy!
I can’t believe they ended up living together!

The guy I’m with now was, I guess what you would call, My Greek, back in college.
I never thought it would get to the point where we were in a relationship.
I remember one time we were laying there and he mentioned something about him not looking for a relationship — just fun.
It caught me off guard so much that I caught myself telling him I had no idea what he was talking about — I wasn’t looking for a relationship, before I could even finish thinking it to myself.
4 1/2 years later and we’re together now.
I don’t know how it happened but if I ever heard him say something like that I’d have to kick his ass.
Simple as that.
lol
And I’d get an extra kick in there just for you ;)

]]> By: Juggle Jane http://fairytalesend.com/2009/01/ghosts-from-the-past/comment-page-1/#comment-30 Juggle Jane Wed, 25 Feb 2009 00:50:42 +0000 http://fairytalesend.wordpress.com/?p=31#comment-30 I had the exact opposite label stuck to me. I was 'the girl you marry' and never the fun-time girl. To this day, I struggle with that. Wanting to be the Just-For-Kicks woman vs. the woman who wants a secure, loving relationship. Maybe part of the journey is realizing that BOTH of those women exist inside you - and then figuring out how to balance them. If you figure it out, let me know! I had the exact opposite label stuck to me. I was ‘the girl you marry’ and never the fun-time girl. To this day, I struggle with that. Wanting to be the Just-For-Kicks woman vs. the woman who wants a secure, loving relationship. Maybe part of the journey is realizing that BOTH of those women exist inside you – and then figuring out how to balance them.
If you figure it out, let me know!

]]> By: Sylvanus http://fairytalesend.com/2009/01/ghosts-from-the-past/comment-page-1/#comment-29 Sylvanus Wed, 21 Jan 2009 14:55:26 +0000 http://fairytalesend.wordpress.com/?p=31#comment-29 From knowing Mina, I know a lot of the stupid, pointless, insensitive things that some of the most ridiculous asshole in her past have said have stuck to her psyche through the years. It never mattered that they were said by people trying to inflict pain for whatever reason. I have spent some time now trying to prove them wrong, and so has she, by the simple act of living well and being happy. But it never changes the fact that these things are there. To inject a bit of logic into it - one of your central issues with the Prince is that you want to have kids, right? Does that really sound like someone who just wants to play, and not settle down? <strong><em> You are right, I know his motives were not pure. As for me, Insecurity is a Bitch. I'm working on it. </em></strong> From knowing Mina, I know a lot of the stupid, pointless, insensitive things that some of the most ridiculous asshole in her past have said have stuck to her psyche through the years. It never mattered that they were said by people trying to inflict pain for whatever reason. I have spent some time now trying to prove them wrong, and so has she, by the simple act of living well and being happy. But it never changes the fact that these things are there.

To inject a bit of logic into it – one of your central issues with the Prince is that you want to have kids, right? Does that really sound like someone who just wants to play, and not settle down?

You are right, I know his motives were not pure. As for me, Insecurity is a Bitch. I’m working on it.

]]> By: O http://fairytalesend.com/2009/01/ghosts-from-the-past/comment-page-1/#comment-28 O Mon, 12 Jan 2009 18:25:36 +0000 http://fairytalesend.wordpress.com/?p=31#comment-28 From what I gather, I think it was The Greek being jealous that The Geek had you as his steady girlfriend. Men tend to get territorial like that (yeah I am one), so he was trying to downplay your possibilities of anything more to The Geek. The Greek only saw what you allowed him to see, and you obviously showed more to The Geek than naked boy. ;-) Back to the remark though, that really hinges on the tone of voice that was used because I can see it being a wicked remark of jealousy or an honest conversation with a friend. Either way, I wouldn't read to much into it, especially nowadays. You weighed your choices and took the plunge with The Prince. If nothing else, you opened your heart and had the courage to take the plunge. <em><strong> Thanks, I have no idea how it was said since I only heard it second-hand. Also I have given up trying to figure out how men think. I know those boys were good friends at the time. I laughed it off at the time. But memories are funny, they say you will only remember the good stuff, but lately all the bad stuff keeps showing up. As for my courage levels: I had the courage to take that plunge, now looking for the courage to get out of the water. </strong></em> From what I gather, I think it was The Greek being jealous that The Geek had you as his steady girlfriend. Men tend to get territorial like that (yeah I am one), so he was trying to downplay your possibilities of anything more to The Geek. The Greek only saw what you allowed him to see, and you obviously showed more to The Geek than naked boy. ;-)

Back to the remark though, that really hinges on the tone of voice that was used because I can see it being a wicked remark of jealousy or an honest conversation with a friend. Either way, I wouldn’t read to much into it, especially nowadays. You weighed your choices and took the plunge with The Prince. If nothing else, you opened your heart and had the courage to take the plunge.

Thanks, I have no idea how it was said since I only heard it second-hand. Also I have given up trying to figure out how men think. I know those boys were good friends at the time. I laughed it off at the time. But memories are funny, they say you will only remember the good stuff, but lately all the bad stuff keeps showing up.

As for my courage levels: I had the courage to take that plunge, now looking for the courage to get out of the water.

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