Fairytales End

I find myself in a situation I really don’t know how to deal with.  I know what I want but I’ve been locked in a dungeon and I am not strong enough to break down the door. I want the divorce, he agreed not to fight me on it but no matter what I keep [...]

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This has come up several times this week. People have asked if we tried counselling. Yes, yes we tried and it sucked. And then these people who tend to be divorced themselves tell me they had the same experience. So I am left to question: Has anyone gone to marriage counselling and came out of [...]

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A co-worker asked me this morning “How is the divorce going?” I thought, my readers might want to know too… all 25 of you. *Princess waves hello* The answer in a word: Complicated Since January 20, 2009 things haven’t moved as fast as I would like but I haven’t backtracked or gone into hiding.  The morning [...]

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Now to add what happened on Valentine’s 2009 to my list. Valentine’s 2009 Unexpectedly good… in a very non-Valentine’s way. To start the story I need to back up to 2 days before.  The Prince and I talked, argued, cried, fought.  He realized it’s really over, no more denying it, nothing can be done that [...]

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So I’m sleeping in the guest room.  I’ve gotten used to the futon and sleep pretty well, only waking once a night when I pinch something and lose feeling in a hand. Yesterday The Prince sent me an ecard saying he’s sorry and asking for forgiveness.  This is not a forgiveness issue. He’s had his [...]

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